A Blessing

 

May you awaken to the mystery of being here and enter

the quiet immensity of your own presence.

May you have joy and peace in the temple of your senses.

May you receive great encouragement when new frontiers beckon.

May you respond to the call of your gift and find the

courage to follow its path.

May the flame of anger free you from falsity.

May warmth of heart keep your presence aflame and may

anxiety never linger about you.

May your outer dignity mirror an inner dignity of soul.

May you take time to celebrate the quiet miracles that

seek no attention.

May you be consoled in the secret symmetry of your soul.

May you experiencre each day as a sacred gift woven

around the heart of wonder.

By John O’Donohue

 

 

Act as if what you intend to manifest in life is already a reality. Eliminate thoughts of conditions, limitations, or the possibility of it not manifesting. If left undisturbed in your mind and in the mind of intention simultaneously, it will germinate in the physical world.

- Dr. Wayne Dyer

Hi!

I just made a huge step in fulfilling my purpose.
I signed up for a course that is about stepping
into Leadership Mastery for becoming a
powerful leader in my own life, and in the world,
plus mastering the art of leading groups.  You
are going to see some big changes in me as I
step into my power and I want to step into with
you too.

If you’re inspired, check out this fr*ee call that
was created by David Morelli & Kristin Morelli.
Real quick, they created a radio show that 3/4
of a million people subscribe to (and did it less
than 2 years), they lead very successful
businesses doing what they love, they lead
huge groups hundreds & thousands at a time
through powerful transformation.

Here’s the link:

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On that call, you’ll hear how she retired as a
self-made millionaire at the age of 30 and how
he went from leading a group of five people at a
time to leading a thousand people at a time in
just 3 years…and with better results.

Check this out…I’m doing it and I’d love to do it
with you.

Marilyn O’Malley, CPCC

Intuitive Transformational Life Coach

P.S.  It starts on May 4th, so check it out quick!

http://attendthisevent.com/?eventid=12536589

Please step up and shine your light brightly for those whose light has been dimmed so they may find their way.

We are in an incredible time of our lives and the possibilities and potential are unlimited.
The universe is shifting and so are we.

Our beliefs that are not true about our world and ourselves are being exposed
and this is creating much fear and anxiety, as well as, a new awakening of consciousness.
We can’t do much about natural disasters or political uprisings, but we can take responsibility for how we show up.

Now is the time to use all this stimulation to express creatively new ideas, inventions,
thoughts and beliefs that support a loving and healthy universe. Let go of the powerless
thinking and put your attention on how you can serve for the better good of all.

 

What value can you bring…whether it be a product, love, compassion, medical-spiritual-physical-psychological aid,
pray for what will serve the highest good of all, create beauty, entertainment, joy, energy work…

Stay consciously creating with excitement about what is possible.

Individually & Together we make a difference!

Marilyn O’Malley

 

Are you clear & committed in your life or are you just whining your way through it?
Are you comfortable with a mediocre life or do you want an extraordinary one?
You get to choose!


People have a habit of complaining about what they don’t like about their life and not taking any new action to create something different.
Putting your attention on what’s not working for you all the time keeps you looking for and attracting what’s not working for you.
To change your issue or situation you have to change where you are putting your attention by get clear about what it is that you want to manifest and focus on getting there and not where you are at now.
If you are not clear and focused your energy is scattered and running on old habitual thinking that keeps you stuck repeating your situation over and over.
You have to change your inner programming of what you believe about yourself and your world. To change your circumstances you need to change the programming inside you to match what it is that you are wanting to create. An example is, If  you believe the world and most people in it are bad and scary then you will never feel safe and secure.
Another example:
You need to examine what you believe about happiness. Are those your beliefs or someone else’s?
If you want more happiness in your life you need to get clear on what makes you happy.
You then need to start involving yourself or choosing to do, be or have what makes you happy on a daily basis.
To allow yourself happiness, you will need to change how you feel about yourself and
let go of the beliefs and thinking that have kept you from having more happiness in your life.
Those beliefs could be: I don’t deserve to be happy, I have to work hard to be happy,
I am not good enough so how could I ever be good enough to be happy, life sucks, the world is unsafe,
I’m unloveable, I’m a victim-I never get what I want…
Releasing or reprogramming these old messages that you have about yourself that are
lies is key to making the change and shifting your energy.
You have to be willing to receive and enjoy being happier.  Happiness is an energy and learning to hold that level of energy for longer periods of time is key to raising your level of happiness and attracting new things into your life.
Bottom line:
The work you need to do, to change a situation or the direction of your life, is inside you.
Working harder, giving more of yourself, sacrificing yourself, worrying…etc. doesn’t change anything. In fact it makes life harder for you.
Ready to transform your life?
The time is NOW. What you do now affects the rest of your life.
Every moment is a choice and you are the director of your life.
Wake up and start making choices.
Need Help Call Me 805 275-4153
Marilyn O’Malley, CPCC
Transformational Life Coach

Happiness leads to Success, not Success Creates Happiness

I loved what I heard in an interview of Shawn Achor author of Happiness Advantage by Success Magazine owner Darren Hardy. Here are my notes.

Happiness leads to success. Our belief that success leads to happiness is backwards.
The belief that if we just work harder we will be successful doesn’t hold up to research results.
Neurological studies and Positive Psychology research shows that if we raise the brains level of positivity in the present then success rates rise and we work faster, harder and more intelligently.

Our belief system has us living a stressful and overwhelmed life, thinking this will create success which will in turn lead to our happiness. People are starting their day at work in the negative, neutral or stressed level. This old belief isn’t creating success.

People who are happy come to work full and with a positive attitude.

Happy sales people sell 90% more than other sales persons.

One of the 7 principles in the Happiness Advantage book is gratitude.
Positive people in a challenging situation look for the things that make them grateful
and look for more ways to create more meaning, a better future, and to raise their success rates.

The brain is like single processor; it has small amounts of resources for experiencing the world.
If your brain is working on negative perspectives it has no room for finding, positive solutions and experiences.
Happy people train their brain to be grateful.

Happy, successful people have social support networks, the ability to manage stress in a positive way, and are optimistic.

Success indicators

25%  intelligence; education-experience

75%

belief in yourself; that your behaviors matters,

have social support networks; family, friends, peers, office

have positive attitude: stress is viewed as a challenge looking for ways to get over it instead of a bad thing to be avoided.

How to be a happy, successful leader

  • recruit positive people ripples out to clients, brains reap happiness advantage, perceived as more trust worthy, charismatic,  more attractive, stay longer at process, positive attitude ripples out to others, increases the chances of the sales happening. Sole entrepreneur surround yourself with positive collaborators, vendors, associates…
  • be a positive yourself small changes in attitude can ripple through your network.
  • raise you level of frequency of positive praise
    That energy spreads and raises the success level of the team. Good way to start the day.
  • prioritize happiness in the present; make happiness a priority in your life and in your business.
    Make time for social investment, personal refueling in nature, meditation, exercise and self expression (music, art, dance…).
  • create social support network.; invest in more social networking when stressed vs thinking that you need to buckle down or put your nose to the grind stone, isolating and thinking negative judgments which creates more stress and you end up alone, unhappy and unsuccessful.

A Yale study showed that a positive and engaged work force is more successful than the number of years of collective experience and intelligence of the team.

  • focus on praising the process as well as the outcome. Studies show if you just praise outcome and not the process their sense of self worth to the whole is lowered and they are not happy.

Shawn shared valuable information that all of us can use whether we are part of a team or a sole entrepreneur.
What you believe and how you feel affect how people respond to you, what you attract to you and raises or lowers your chances of success.  Happiness is a choice and there are many things you can do to create more of it in your life.
May I suggest reading Happiness Advantage by Shawn Anchor, change your thinking and habits with the help of a Life Coach, read Success Magazine or start taking action on the steps outlined here! Do something now.

Success starts with you, your happiness, your passion, your purpose, your love, your unique expression of yourself and expands out into your world. You are responsible for cultivating those expressions, attitudes and habits.

Want more information about creating success and happiness in your life?

Call Marilyn O’Malley, CPCC
Transformational Life Coach
805 275-4153
coachmarilyn1@gmail.com

Try watching this daily with intention and see how you start getting new results in your life.

Hi!
I hope you enjoy the wise advise about life and that they may spark an AH HA!
I will be posting more. Let me know what you think about…

Infinite blessings,
Marilyn O’Malley, CPCC
coachmarilyn@yahoo.com

The brain only sees what it is condition (programmed) to see.
So you only see what you are conditioned to see. There is a lot you are missing! Ummm

Knowledge gives you the power to preceive reality differently.

Perception is limited and personal.

Perception is based on experience, beliefs, habits and conditioning.
(childhood, religion, culture, media, friends…)

Stop believing what you hear and see, most of it is inaccurate.

You don’t see with you eyes, you see with your mind.
Your perception influences your interpretation of your world.
It is not the truth!  ~ John Assaraf

It is not the event, it is the meaning you put on the event that makes you
feel the way you feel about it.

Your vision will become clear only when you can look into your own heart.
Who looks outside, dreams. Who looks inside awakens.  ~Carl Jung

Average person loses their attention 6-10 times a minute.

96%-98% of people are conditioned by things they have no knowledge of.

Tell your brain what you want it to believe and that it is true, until it gets it!
(persistent and consistent)

The intelligence that created us is US! We are what we BElieve.

We will only do what we know (subconscious mind).
We are controlled by our programmed subconscious mind.

Money has nothing to do with intelligence.
It has to do with your money and self worth beliefs.

Your thoughts are your seeds of potential.

The mind only focuses on one thing at a time.

You can’t take out more than you put in. If you want more give it away!
~ money ~ friendship ~ gratitude ~ patience ~love ~ validation ~ …

Faith is the ability to believe in the absence of fact.

Everything just IS = suspend judgement.

The process of creation and manifestation is a dance between you and the Universe!
~John Assaraf

Your subconscious mind and the universe are soooo much more powerful than your conscious mind.
Get Clear what you want, so you can reprogram your subconscious mind and manifest what you really desire.

Your Confidence is Directly Related to

Your Level of Motivation.

A confident person is someone who simply has the inner

knowledge that he or she can do what they desire to do.

The notion that they might not succeed isn’t even an issue

because they know their self-worth isn’t measured by

individual tasks.~The American Monk -

A powerful piece of creativity! Feel the passion in this poem.

“If you want to change the world – love a woman” –Lisa Citore

If you want to change the world… love a woman-really love her.

Find the one who calls to your soul, who doesn’t make sense.

Throw away your check list and put your ear to her heart and listen.

Hear the names, the prayers, the songs of every living thing- every winged one, every furry and scaled one, every underground and underwater one, every green and flowering one, every not yet born and dying one… Hear their melancholy praises back to the One who gave them life. If you haven’t heard your own name yet, you haven’t listened long enough. If your eyes aren’t filled with tears, if you aren’t bowing at her feet, you haven’t ever grieved having almost lost her.

If you want to change the world… love a woman-one woman beyond yourself, beyond desire and reason, beyond your male preferences for youth, beauty and variety and all your superficial concepts of freedom. We have given ourselves so many choices we have forgotten that true liberation comes from standing in the middle of the soul’s fire and burning through our resistance to Love. There is only one Goddess. Look into Her eyes and see-really see if she is the one to bring the axe to your head. If not, walk away. Right now. Don’t waste time “trying.” Know that your decision has nothing to do with her because ultimately it’s not with who, but when we choose to surrender.

If you want to change the world… love a woman. Love her for life-beyond your fear of death, beyond your fear of being manipulated by the Mother inside your head. Don’t tell her you’re willing to die for her. Say you’re willing to LIVE with her, plant trees with her and watch them grow. Be her hero by telling her how beautiful she is in her vulnerable majesty, by helping her to remember every day that she IS Goddess through your adoration and devotion.

If you want to change the world… love a woman in all her faces, through all her seasons and she will heal you of your schizophrenia- your double-mindedness and half-heartedness which keeps your Spirit and body separate- which keeps you alone and always looking outside your Self for something to make your life worth living.

There will always be another woman. Soon the new shiny one will become the old dull one and you’ll grow restless again, trading in women like cars, trading in the Goddess for the latest object of your desire. Man doesn’t need any more choices. What man needs is Woman, the Way of the Feminine, of Patience and Compassion, non-seeking, non-doing, of breathing in one place and sinking deep intertwining roots strong enough to hold the Earth together while she shakes off the cement and steel from her skin.

If you want to change the world… love a woman, just one woman . Love and protect her as if she is the last holy vessel. Love her through her fear of abandonment which she has been holding for all of humanity. No, the wound is not hers to heal alone. No, she is not weak in her codependence.

If you want to change the world… love a woman all the way through until she believes you, until her instincts, her visions, her voice, her art, her passion, her wildness have returned to her- until she is a force of love more powerful than all the political media demons who seek to devalue and destroy her.

If you want to change the world, lay down your causes, your guns and protest signs. Lay down your inner war, your righteous anger and love a woman… beyond all of your striving for greatness, beyond your tenacious quest for enlightenment. The holy grail stands before you if you would only take her in your arms and let go of searching for something beyond this intimacy.

What if peace is a dream which can only be re-membered through the heart of Woman? What if a man’s love for Woman, the Way of the Feminine is the key to opening Her heart?

If you want to change the world…love a woman to the depths of your shadow, to the highest reaches of your Being, back to the Garden where you first met her, to the gateway of the rainbow realm where you walk through together as Light as One, to the point of no return, to the ends and the beginning of a new Earth.

–Lisa Citore

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